You If I fall in love with myself, I will become a narcissistic, if I choose to love myself my life will. Become a honey moon . Falling in love is selfish, choose to love is true love a conscious decision based on healthy reasoning
PS:That is true with anything and any one , falling in love can be followed by falling out of love because expectations were unrealistic and live unhappy ever after.
Moral: fall in love, usually fall of love, and live unhappy ever after, choose to love and live heavenly eternal life