When  I  reflect  on my  life.

I   liked  to  talk   and  tell  other  people  what  to do and  felt

I  am smarter than  them, never  felt  the  need  to  listen  to no one.

I  used   jokes  to  convey  my  massages,  and   was  well  liked   and  helped me  to  be  successful.

Later  in  life  I  realized  more I  talk   more  I  get into  trouble.

I  always  felt  it  is  their loss, never  felt  the need  to  listen  to  them.

When I  become physician, I  will  tell  people  what  to  do,  and  they  do  the opposite.

I  get  my paycheck,  if they  do not listen  it  is  their loss.

I never  cared  if  people  had  problem  with  me,  It  is their  problem.

I  am  so successful  they  are  not  their loss.

Due  to some  reason  I  start  listening  to people,  instead   of  waiting  for  my  turn  to talk.

To  my  surprise   Patient   start  liking  me  and  out    start  getting  better.

I  thought  patient  are  getting  better ,  because  I  was  always  great.

More  I    listen, more  I  learned and  I  realized  how  wrong  I was  all  along.

Now  I listen, learn  and  write healing tips  that  truly heals  me.

Sometime  I  get  lot  of  positive  response   few  negative    and  mostly  no  response.

All  are  equally  important  and  beneficial  to  me.

I  truly  thank  everyone  especially   my patients  ,  friend   family  and   co workers  in particular

and  everyone  and everybody  in  particular.

You  all  are  my  heroes.   🙂  🙂  🙂  🙂

Special  thanks  to a  Inmate and  Shannon  for being  the inspiration  to  write this  healing  tip.

In my lonely  cell only person  I  can play  chess  is  myself.

I noticed  when I  win  I also loses.

When I  loose  , I also win.

I learn  depending  the intensity  of  the  game.

Chess  is a serious  game.

It  is  win, win  when  put 100%  effort.

It is win loose  or  loose win if  I  put 50% effort

It is a  loose,   loose  if  I put 0%  effort.

I  learn  defense  and  offence    when I put 100%  effort.

Now  I  am  ready  for anyone or any body.

When I  conquer myself  I  feel  really  victorious. 🙂

I love  GOD,LORD, CREATOR, ALLAH,  few of many names of  one GOD.

Sequence     do  change  from  time  to  time  depend  where  I  am and   whom  I  am  talking  with.

I love  my  wife  and  my  family.

I  love my  patients  and  my  friends.

I love  everything  and  everyone.

If  you  are  reading  this  post    and  one  who  do not  read my post  I  love  all  of  them.

I  learn  when I get  a  response  of  my  post  and  also learn  when I  do not  get response  of  my post.

PS  I  love  myself  too.

Life  isgift of GOD.

I love life  and I am  on  honeymoon till my very last breath.

Last breath will be sweetest because I  will meet my maker

and live eternal life.

I cried   with my first breath, and I will have a big smile with my last breath  🙂

A person  who does nit  forgive  others is  punishing himself or  herself

has  no self  love.

This  a    very self destructive.

Expect  the  worse  from others  and  wish  them the  best.

You  will never  be  disappointed, may  be pleasantly  surprised  at times.  🙂

Pleasure  of  unhealthy love  lasts  a moment, with long  term consequences.

Pleasure  of healthy  love    last   for ever   with  rewards  and  joy.

The  primary  function  of a  human to  nuture  the  soul to  become  a  spirtual  being.

Healthy nuturing of  the  mind  and  body is  a  by product of  being a  spirtual  being.

The  way  I   see  it

This  world  is a  prison  and  everyone  is  serving  life term.

some  of  us get  conviucted and  go  to  prision  (  which  is a  prison  with in a  prison)

To me   I  found them blessed  because  are  they are paying the  price    by  serving  time.

More  I  try  to  serve  them  more  blessing   I  earn   and  can feel it.

Inmate  in  prsions   are   easier   to deal than  in inmates outside  the prison.

Story  of  a  80  years    old  Inmate

when I  was  23  ,   I  was  attacked  by  a robber,  I fought back

and  robber end  up  dead.

I  got  scared  and  ran  away, to another state  and  become  a  priest.

I  was  priest  for  50  years.

I  was  living   peaceful life  but the  guilt    often bothered me.

Finally I  broke  down  and  report  to the  authorities.

I  am  in  jail  but I  am  truly free,  knowing  that I  will  meet  my  maker  with  clean slate.